[quote='muffinss',index.php?page=Thread&postID=1579 83#post157983]i choose a target on main, press #2 walk up and position me so the alt can hit him too, we fight, mob dies, i loot and start to walk away, and alt just stands still [/quote]
You need to press the follow macro again before you move off, other than that you're doing ok

Change you second macro to:

/follow focus
/assist focus
/startattack

and use it in combat to turn your followers.

The technique is to run through the mob with your main and then spin round, this will pull your followers into melee range. When the mob moves reposition your main and press the 'assist' macro again to turn/move your followers. Here's my simple focus based guide:

[url='http://www.dual-boxing.com/forums/index.php?page=Thread&postID=151777']Simple Focus-Based MultiBoxing Setup and Macros Guide[/url]

and if you're getting stressed over multiboxing (or gaming) you should stop, it's not worth a heart attack, gaming and boxing are FUN, not WORK!