We have months vbefore 4.0.1 right?

Jafula, is there a way to configure chat so that I get a Warning message when a character receives a message, rather then sending it to me?

I've been caught in a few recursive loops and had to exit rapidly incase I was spamming the guy with thousands of messages.

I don't mind switching to chars to respond to a whisper, its just getting a notice on the active character that I would like.