one thing i do for my alts..../assist focus.../startattack

you can preselect a target THEN hit that macro and the alts will all bring that target up THEN i would guess that the pets will target what ur alts have targeted

I put that macro on the 1 spot in the action bar(forget which bar..the one with numbers assigned) which normally has ATTACK in the spot. this way nobody decides to attack something without me knowing about it. ;(