I finally get to use some of the stuff i've learned in psychology.


If you do decided to go to dinner, Go to a dimly lit place. There was a study done that I cant seem to find. Anyways it found that because of the low light causes your pupils dilate, which it just happens is a body language sign that people like what they are seeing. So dinner at a place with small booths or semi small tables can also help. Try and find out some things she likes, Movie, Activities, Her favorite memory from growing up, It's sometimes best to lead in this question by telling yours first. Don't try to force this kind of question in. If the opportunity presents itself go with it.
Example: "When i was a kid i remember this one summer My parents(Or Mom, Dad) we drove cross country to visit so and so." Tell some of the funny happenings along the way ect

If its dinner and a movie DO NOT GO TO A MOVIE THEATER. Its just bad for the mood, Food stuck everywhere sticky floors Crappy chairs no talking ect.

A Movie in the park is I think a better idea than the movie theaters. The type of movie can be just about anything new or old pretty much what ever is playing(They don't normally play crappy movies at these things) But comedy's work fairly well it can give her an excuse to touch you lean on your shoulder ect. Check out the area before hand so you know if you need to bring a blanket or something to sit in/on comfortably. If the movie isnt going over well you can always just walk around the park and just BS along the way and go grab a coffee/Drinks ect.

Bowling can be great, if she like bowling that is of course.


A Comedy club on an open mic night can sometimes be a fun idea. I've only taken one date to one and it went ok, Sit at the bar makes it easier to face each other when talking. Most times the bar is far away from the stage so you can have a conversation with out being to distracted or being distracting. Going when there is a good/famous comedian performing can hurt the date more than help it. You'll both be focusing more on the performer and less each other.

Its easier for most people to talk about themselves than to ask questions, but don't make her do all the talking! Don't be stiff when you talk try to be animated while talking use your hands it helps keep her attention on you. Ask engaging questions that will make her talk about herself and you about yourself. Questions that can be answered with a simple yes or no aren't very engaging.



Wow way more than i was planning on typing ^^ , Time to sleep lol :sleeping: