Good luck Deshu. Just look out for your kids too. When I was a kid and my parents seperated I despised every person they brought home that they had been dating. I also infinitely despised it if the people they were dating tried to act like a parent to me. The best thing my parents did when dating was to never bring them around me. I always hated meeting my dad or mom's new interest. I mean HATED.

Maybe that's just me.

Even to this day I cannot stand meeting any new girlfriends my dad has. It's not like I want them to be single forever, it's just that there's a part of me that wants the old mom and dad back. I think it's great that they both would be dating people, but I do not care to meet them or hear about it. Which I know is kinda mean and close-minded, but whatever. My Dad has brought home some annoying ass women before and it really pissed me off. Ok rant off.....wow got a little carried away.