Just newely divorced... how the hell does a date work now-a-days??

[entoptic]

LOL i love how all the married people are giving dating advice. That shit cracks me the hell up.

PLEASE DO NOT GO DATE SOMEONE! Just go out there and find yourself again. The women will come to you ONCE you find YOURSELF again. Otherwise you are making weird situations trying to force a date.

I said it before and I will say it again. Get your WINKIE WET!!!!

[Vyndree]

In any case, I ended up playing WoW at his house all the time and eventually we moved in together and started multiboxing.

That's hawt. Think about that. It's like cyber or sumtin.

Actually, that's called real life. Not everything is perverted.

It's not your job to watch out for Deshu's "winkie". If he wants to date, let him date. He's an adult, he knows how to take care of himself.

[entoptic]

I never said everything was perverted but that statement was kinda off if you don't know what multiboxing is.

[Lyonheart]

They just don't GET IT!

Disagree.

My wife is not a gamer at heart (she'll play tetris and stuff... but thats it). But she understands that I'm a gamer, and gives me my space. When I say "need a minute to finish this" she's like "ok" and waits. She tried playing WoW (She hijacked my Warrior once while I was AFK and took him for a spin.... lol), but just really isn't that interested in it.

But she's not pushy with it (95% of the time at least). Its a mutual understanding.

What you've described above is just a very immature self-centered person. Gaming was probably just a catalyst to the issue... not the route cause.

Well I know that there are gamer/non gamer couples that work. And i would love to be able to find someone who would be cool with it for real. But I'm not basing what i said on just my own experiences. There are many examples of this. And I also want to add that these relationships all lasted a few years before my "not giving up games for them" ended. I made sure i spent much time with each of them, we had "our nights out" etc. I own my own business and am a good provider as well. trust me when i say that they all ended because I game. Do I game a lot? Yes. 5 nights a week, but they all new that when they met me.

So i am very happy for anyone who can co exist with a non gamer and game "guilt or stress free". I just wont put myself or another woman through that again.

[Deshu]

Example of one of my RL conversations
Her- " Hey honey can you run to the store and grab some more milk real fast, so i can finish dinner? "
ME -" Ok Baby, just let me get to a safe spot so my guy doesn't die"
Her- " umm just pause it and go get the milk please!"
Me- "Well sweetheart, I cant pause it. I have to be someplace safe. There is no "pause" in this game. Ill only be a few minutes and ill go get the milk, ok?"
Her- "F%$K IT, Ill go get it myself!"

ROFL... my father started playing WoW when BC came out. The above is almost an exact redramatization of one of their typical conversations at night.... except it was over butter, not milk lol.

My father tells me "when your mother passese, God bless her heart, I'm done with women! HAHA

[Vyndree]

Easy way to hook 101

Find a rave. Eat some E, find a hottie on it as well. Done. People are so easy nowadays it hurts me.

It's like cyber or sumtin.

I said it before and I will say it again. Get your WINKIE WET!!!!

I never said everything was perverted but that statement was kinda off if you don't know what multiboxing is.

So far I've found something in each one of your posts that is distasteful, particularly to the female community.

I'm going to make a kind request, as a woman and not a moderator, that you tone it down a little.

[entoptic]

They just don't GET IT!

Disagree.

My wife is not a gamer at heart (she'll play tetris and stuff... but thats it). But she understands that I'm a gamer, and gives me my space. When I say "need a minute to finish this" she's like "ok" and waits. She tried playing WoW (She hijacked my Warrior once while I was AFK and took him for a spin.... lol), but just really isn't that interested in it.

But she's not pushy with it (95% of the time at least). Its a mutual understanding.

What you've described above is just a very immature self-centered person. Gaming was probably just a catalyst to the issue... not the route cause.

Well I know that there are gamer/non gamer couples that work. And i would love to be able to find someone who would be cool with it for real. But I'm not basing what i said on just my own experiences. There are many examples of this. And I also want to add that these relationships all lasted a few years before my "not giving up games for them" ended. I made sure i spent much time with each of them, we had "our nights out" etc. I own my own business and am a good provider as well. trust me when i say that they all ended because I game. Do I game a lot? Yes. 5 nights a week, but they all new that when they met me.

So i am very happy for anyone who can co exist with a non gamer and game "guilt or stress free". I just wont put myself or another woman through that again.

I am in a great relationship with a non gamer. She actually wants nothing to do with it and is fine by that. She knows how to get my attention and I know how to put a game down and just let my guys die. She even understands that I am playing with real people and that she can't just butt into the game to get what she wants as it is like me busting up her and her girlies doing something.

We still go out and do tons of stuff together. We are both circus preformers, go to festivals and enjoy shaking our asses on the dance floor. Mebbe it works out because the sexual spark is still very much there and we both work on creating time for each other. I have no clue really.

[Deshu]

I'm a mature adult and I'm looking for a mature woman. As much as I might have loved back in my younger days, playing the field... it is not the same now. I have 2 kids, 1 that is 8 and another that's 9 months old... so hopefully you can understand

[entoptic]

Easy way to hook 101

Find a rave. Eat some E, find a hottie on it as well. Done. People are so easy nowadays it hurts me.

It's like cyber or sumtin.

I said it before and I will say it again. Get your WINKIE WET!!!!

I never said everything was perverted but that statement was kinda off if you don't know what multiboxing is.

So far I've found something in each one of your posts that is distasteful, particularly to the female community.

I'm going to make a kind request, as a woman and not a moderator, that you tone it down a little.

Omg come on are you serious? Girls want it just as bad as guys and they do ALL KINDS OF CRAZY SHIT just like guys to get it. There is nothing there that is mean to women and if you think so then you are entitled to your opinion but there is nothing there to warrant a distasteful remark or to say its particularly against females.

I have apparently touched on something that gets your feelings all worked up so I will simmer down some.

Look all I am saying is that you are all giving this guy BAD ADVICE. he just got out of a marriage and you all are trying to put him back into the same circle he just came out off.

I am saying go out and have fun. Let it come to you, don't force it.

[entoptic]

I'm a mature adult and I'm looking for a mature woman. As much as I might have loved back in my younger days, playing the field... it is not the same now. I have 2 kids, 1 that is 8 and another that's 9 months old... so hopefully you can understand

Ahh Deshu now I understand. But please don't go and just jump into dating. Take is slow. Mebbe playing the field is not your thing but hoping into the dating scene again should not be as well.