Just newely divorced... how the hell does a date work now-a-days??

[keyclone]

I'm going to make a kind request, as a woman and not a moderator, that you tone it down a little.

and this is the chant you'd hear as they fumble in their purse for the can

Omg come on are you serious? Girls want it just as bad as guys and they do ALL KINDS OF CRAZY SHIT just like guys to get it

and this is the noise you hear just before the 'pling' of the firing pin...

[Vyndree]

Look all I am saying is that you are all giving this guy BAD ADVICE. he just got out of a marriage and you all are trying to put him back into the same circle he just came out off.

I am saying go out and have fun. Let it come to you, don't force it.

This stuff above is advice, and totally welcome to be discussed




As for the rest, encouraging him to get himself and a woman drugged so that they can't make proper decisions, you're inviting the potential for very illegal things to happen. While some women are very open, sexual beings (as are some men), not everyone appreciates the heavy sexual language -- I understand the IRC is very open for NSFW discussions, but I'd just like to keep it off the forums. The forums are a bit more permanent and have a lasting future impact on the opinions other people make of our community.

That's where I had an issue, and I appreciate the fact that you're willing to keep it down. Thanks.

[Ellay]

The marathon idea sounds awesome, but to take someone on a date... well I'd suppose they would have to be interested first!

As for the Disney marathon, it is insanely popular - the thing sells out extremely fast.

[entoptic]

Look all I am saying is that you are all giving this guy BAD ADVICE. he just got out of a marriage and you all are trying to put him back into the same circle he just came out off.

I am saying go out and have fun. Let it come to you, don't force it.

This stuff above is advice, and totally welcome to be discussed




As for the rest, encouraging him to get himself and a woman drugged so that they can't make proper decisions, you're inviting the potential for very illegal things to happen. While some women are very open, sexual beings (as are some men), not everyone appreciates the heavy sexual language -- I understand the IRC is very open for NSFW discussions, but I'd just like to keep it off the forums. The forums are a bit more permanent and have a lasting future impact on the opinions other people make of our community.

That's where I had an issue, and I appreciate the fact that you're willing to keep it down. Thanks.

I hear ya! I am sorry but I was not trying to sound like rape or anything. Just have some fun, the drugs let the gaurds between people down and lets them be well themselves in a sense. I won't mention that again and I do respect woman and their boundaries. I am on the west coast and most people here are cool with that idea. I guess I need to travel more...

[entoptic]

PLEASE DO NOT GO DATE SOMEONE! Just go out there and find yourself again. The women will come to you ONCE you find YOURSELF again.

ok.. i'm fairly certain that you, standing there 'finding yourself' will not attract any women

maybe a blast of mace or two....

Actually woman find men who have found themselves WAY more attractive then men who have not. It's a proven fact and I don't need to be a girl to tell you that. Why do you think most woman go for mature men, men that have goals, men that have their shit together, men that feel comfortable doing what they do instead of following another person around like a puppy dog.

[d0z3rr]

Good luck Deshu. Just look out for your kids too. When I was a kid and my parents seperated I despised every person they brought home that they had been dating. I also infinitely despised it if the people they were dating tried to act like a parent to me. The best thing my parents did when dating was to never bring them around me. I always hated meeting my dad or mom's new interest. I mean HATED.

Maybe that's just me.

Even to this day I cannot stand meeting any new girlfriends my dad has. It's not like I want them to be single forever, it's just that there's a part of me that wants the old mom and dad back. I think it's great that they both would be dating people, but I do not care to meet them or hear about it. Which I know is kinda mean and close-minded, but whatever. My Dad has brought home some annoying ass women before and it really pissed me off. Ok rant off.....wow got a little carried away.

[keyclone]

[quote='entoptic',index.php?page=Thread&postID=8612 2#post86122]Actually woman find men who have found themselves WAY more attractive then men who have not. It's a proven fact and I don't need to be a girl to tell you that. Why do you think most woman go for mature men, men that have goals, men that have their shit together, men that feel comfortable doing what they do instead of following another person around like a puppy dog.[/quote]a sense of humor can go a long way...

as for mature men that have goals... i think you're right. that and a few billion seemed to work wonders for [url='http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/J._Howard_Marshall']James Howard Marshall II[/url]

[entoptic]

Good luck Deshu. Just look out for your kids too. When I was a kid and my parents seperated I despised every person they brought home that they had been dating. I also infinitely despised it if the people they were dating tried to act like a parent to me. The best thing my parents did when dating was to never bring them around me. I always hated meeting my dad or mom's new interest. I mean HATED.

Maybe that's just me.

Even to this day I cannot stand meeting any new girlfriends my dad has. It's not like I want them to be single forever, it's just that there's a part of me that wants the old mom and dad back. I think it's great that they both would be dating people, but I do not care to meet them or hear about it. Which I know is kinda mean and close-minded, but whatever. My Dad has brought home some annoying ass women before and it really pissed me off. Ok rant off.....wow got a little carried away.

very VERY good advice. I did not even think of the kids... probably cause I don't have any and both my parents are still together. :thumbsup:

[Fleecy]

Torrs <3 TheElles (my gamer GF/wife). :love:

Couldn't ask for anyone better - well, maybe a woman who gave me epics maybe, or one who bought me an epic flyer, or or may if she power leveled my new girls, or .... :P

Met at my mothers (re)wedding. It was love at first instance. :thumbsup:

[Bradster]

You're asking for dating advice on an internet gaming forum (one of the geekier ones honestly)?

Seriously?

lol

Last time I dated was 2002, 2003 when I met my wife. Our first date I took her out to eat then to some band playing in town. Next one dinner then went to a park with a waterfall at night, giddy giddy.