avoid collection quests like the plague!

Regarding hand ins exercise is good for you!!!! alternatively look up some of these

whispers

or

Quest handins or Quest choice

EDIT: using the second of the two quest addons will allow you to choose, but you need the starting interaction from the first one if you want to do it all form one pc

I haven't used them personally but you may be able to do something with them

EDIT2: just realised there might be a slight problem for you. seeing as ur on 2 pcs and the first of the two quest addons relies on mouse cursors, I'm not sure it will work fully