just so your aware recomended simply means they have a reasonably low population, if your considered rolling and you dont want long queue times to get into your realm roll this 'recomended' realm.

it doesnt mean everyone on that realm is a nice person :p

naturally your going to get alot more attension as a boxer, people will love ganking you becuase your boxing. its somthing you have to deal with pretty much but rest asure the tables will turn in your favour as you get higher level,