Dont feel too bad. Please know that you are going to find the exact oppisite of that reaction as well. I have had far far more people tell me what I was doin is cool and have had several long conv's with a few of em. They are now on my friends lists. You are going to attract attention, we all do. Just take things in stride. Besides its way too much fun to pwn instance bosses in 25 sec by yourself.