Thanks all for the replies .. just prior to coming back this second time I found the "send only" option ... that should solve my problem for that. And I have added the /follow command to the movment keys (basically just remapped them to a macro) ... seems to be working fine so far.

Thanks again ....

This is a fantastic product .... me and a group of 3 other friends always struggled to get a "good" person to come pug with us ... thanks to this product now and a second account we now can have anyone we need play or fill a roll ... and not have to worry about pugs!