My apologies for being abrasive. Had the post up for a few days and got zero bites. Was able to resolve one of the issues myself. Anyways...

First off, I've only been boxing for a few months. I'm currently working on several trio teams. My setup for now is running two PCs. Both are Asrock Anniversary Z97's with a G3258. Main pc has a GTX 950 gpu, secondary has a 520 GT. Main supports three 1080p monitors, secondary is on a 32" Vizio tv.

My first issue, that originally brought me here, was a follow issue - which I discovered was due to my own mistake while trying to "splice" a team member into another team. Re-made a new team and no problems.

My current teams have been setup as so: Main and Slot 2 on my main pc, Slot 3 alone on the secondary pc.
I use ISBoxer and EMA.

So, what I would like to be able to do is run all three from the same pc. The G3258 is only lightly overclocked (not sure if that makes a difference), but tonight I'm going to make sure both pcs are set to the same clock speed. I've tried with a few teams on my main pc and the results are basically...random disconnects of any of the three, though usually the slot 3 will dc first (or more often).
When running both pcs, I seem to get some sort of lag whenever slot 3 zones into a WQ, crosses zones, or just randomly while flying. I was hoping to get a little insight on how get this ironed out for my current setup to make it run a little smoother (eventually I would like to get a 4core chip in my main pc and run all three there).

So, my first question is basically this: From my humble perspective, it seems like running all three from one pc (while it can do it) eats up the majority of my processing power and causes one or more of the instances to lockup or exit. I would like to know if there is anything I can do to improve that to a more playable level?

I would also like a little insight into setting up EMA/ISBoxer to smooth out the rest of the process. Like: Interacting with a target (as mouse broadcasting does not function on my setup), getting/completing quests at the same time and accepting invites (it's like I have to redo all the EMA settings every other time I log a team in).

A little lost and slightly frustrated. Thanks for you time and patience. Let me know if there's any info I need to add.