I have tried so many things I'm starting to lose track:

In group, out of group, between each account, only 2 logged in, 3 logged in, 4 logged in, all addons off, complete delete of WOW and ISBoxer and DL/reinstall, /console cvar_reset, /console InterfaceToT:Show() (that one might not be right), move WTF/Cache folder out, theres more in here just can't think of it right now.