Been 10 boxing on Faeblight, I've had the same experience basically. I would guess 95% of the people I run into are complete retards. Calling me a bot and what not. When I was leveling through IA's almost without fail half of the people who were in the IA or joined after me would just /follow me only doing enough to not get kicked out of the IA for inactivity.

However there have been a few people that have been really cool about it and completely understood that they were riding the gravy train and did what they could to make the process as fast as possible.