My principle is wedding for the guests, honeymoon for the couple. We just used ours as an excuse to have a massive party and everyone (except my mother) had a great time. Something usually goes wrong so the whole "it has to be perfect" nonsense is a complete waste of time/effort. Our band turned up in the wrong town, so we used the opportunity to order more champagne for the guests and took a load more pictures waiting for them.

Love the pictures, those look really professional.