Hang on, something doesn't make sense to me

Someone used a derogatory term in a thread, Someone else requested we don't use it on this forum. You then start this thread to have a discussion where people are discussing moral values, and now you're taking one of these comments personally.

The real question here is this. Will you please refrain from using the word rape on these forums. If yes, thank you very much we all move on. If no, why not?