Jamba to keep track of my team, Grid+GridCustomLayouts+Clique for healing you can sort them so regardless of group your team is the only one in grid.

I had a little trouble working out custom layouts this thread was fantastic http://www.dual-boxing.com/threads/3...Custom-Layouts

Take this last piece of advice with a grain of salt as I am very new and this is personal opinion and the opinion of a few PvPers I asked.

Pretty much you have to deal with it. I use a array of methods depending on how far/which graveyards, But bottom line they will get split up and you must regroup them. Sometimes you can run the alive toons back to the GY in time. Depending on angles/distance I switch to the dead toons set them on auto run switch back start doing things and if you get the right angle and know the BG well enough 4-5 turns can get you all the way from a GY to the end. I use my AV trinket sometimes. On the odd occasion if they die at a GY were capping I will tell the team they should move along I will defend wait for it to be ours and then release. That's all I can think of, Of the top of my head.