10M Raiding w/ two people

[candlebox]

So me and the woman have been at it leveling 5 of every class to 80. We are looking at both 5 boxing 10 man raids. Our goal over the next few weeks is to have one of every class, and we are almost halfway. Im looking to pull knowledge from the experienced raiders out there. I just want to know from what control stand points would be most optimal. Please note we probably will rotate positions to practice.


My only issue is who should control what classes:

Do you play it like a 5 man set and tank/heal/dps x2?

Does one person play heals/ranged, heals/tank, dps/tank, or just dps?

Or should she just heal (3 Box), and i control dps and tanks (7 Box)?