So I am actually playing Everquest but I figure this question can be answered by WOW or EQ players.

The issue I have in EQ is I want to add a monk to my team for pulling. However Monks cannot be main tanks.

So what will end up happening is my monk pulls and my Pally tanks so I will have two guys in Melee.

EQ has /assist so that is not an issue but how hard is it to manage multiple melee while boxing?

Keep in mind in EQ mobs knock you back root you etc etc.