Take the decision what direction you want to go with your char. Then max that out. For example, i run 2 mission chars when our 0.0 alliance is wardecced to pay for my game time. They have marauders 5, max gunnery maxed out on social skills for ISK/LP and max tanking. They do the jobb so much faster then a toon that is not so decced out.

What im trying to say is its imposible to catch up to a char that has been active from 2003 but you can be just as good in specific things in notime at all. Sooner or later you need to start focus on something. So if you like missioning, train up for that and then try something ells. If you like the industry part then focus on that for a few months.

Ps my English only gets wors and wors for every new language i learn.. lol