Well the votes are in!

Thanks to everyone for there advice and opinions!

The results? Well...

Have chosen to go with option 1! For now...
So new SSD, new graphics and double the RAM! If this gets me the improvement I need/want then its a job well done and I save myself £350+
Can go towards a new tattoo, or more speakers in my car :P
If on the other hand its still a bit shitty then I'll go ahead and buy the Mobo+CPU+12GB DDR3! And lick my wounds over spending £150+ on DDR2...

Thanks again

C'mon Pay day!!!