This seems like a play issue. Point for point, hit rating is more important than ANY OTHER STAT YOU COULD POSSIBLY HAVE until you are hit capped. If you are level 80, and not hit capped, and you have a single gem in your gear that is not plus 20 hit, you are doing it wrong. This is not like 'my opinion' or 'well that depends man....' - this is simply the way that the game works. Get hit capped.