another possibility is to:

Switch to group loot on main, set slaves to pass on rolls.
On the main you get the need/greed/de question and you can De immediately.
You can also loot everything with your main.
This is how I have it currently set up.

only drawback is that your main ends up with all the DE'ed stuff.


(if you want to keep the item select pass on the main and loot it manually with the char you need it on.)