I use a macro to do the invites so it is always the same leader. If you use the dungeon finder you can't regroup in the dungeon. You can stand in instance as long as you want as long as you don't group up. I suspect the servers assigns a group id and when the entire group is gone the group id is lost. When you regroup you get a different id and it does not match the instance and out you go.
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