thanks for your input, some good advice there.

because we are a growing and expanding and the job role will be effectively replacing my boss who's becoming a federation manager on a larger scale.

so id imagine i would be very very busy for the next 3-5 years... and i know when i do get focused on something its hard to let go as i can only focus on few things in life otherwise i will just forget and lose my expert edge.

stage 2 is kids/house omg where did my life go??????

ah.. such is life