That team you listed is identical to the team (my second) that I'm leveling. Durotan is a nice PvE server. It is full of people who are the remnant of elitist snob guild who xferred off (so they are just snobs, not elite). But it has some fun drama. The population is decent so the economy is pretty vibrant. Based on the 10 or so servers I have played on it ranks well in that respect. It is sort of indifferent to multiboxers, almost used to them and therefore ignore them. It may be worth looking into.

I am a total hermit there because I play during the day. I haven't found and active guild on any continent that plays when I do :/