I hate that attitude too.

Pre levelling in BG's it was still rife. 2 minutes in and folks are calling that it's a lose and let the alliance win.

How can you ever become a good pvper if all you do is cave in at the first sign of pressure.

I know that all they want to do is get the honour for the latest gear - but if all you do with it is run into an AV and cry, moan and give in then really what's the point?

If i can stop the enemy downing Drek'thar that's a small victory.
If i can grab sp graveyard when they have us blocked on the hill leading towards the alliance base that's a small victory.
If i can help break the defense on the bridge at Dun Baladar that's a small victory.

And those victories where you have turned things around are the sweetest of all.

Heck - I've even been in an AV where alliance were way ahead, and we managed to take out vanndar by keeping him in combat while everyone resses and gets back in.