I have a make focus macro. Just:
/focus party1
/focus CharName (put in name of main char)
So either the leader gets focused (as a fallthrough so at least someone gets focused) or my main char gets focused.
Then I have a assist focus key. I made a macro and rebound it to 'F' since the origninal 'F' is too simple for me. It is basically.
Code:
/cleartarget [target=focus-target, noexists]
/stopmacro [target=focus, noexists]
/assist focus
/startattack [harm, nodead, nopet]
/follow focus
the no pet option is for my hunters so they don't auto-shoot. The simple idea is I select a mob on my main and press 'F' and my alts get whatever my main is targetting.
Hope that helps and good luck.
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