Try this mod: http://maps.eq2interface.com/index.php?action=download

Then in game, open your map, and you can search for whatever it is you want to find.
It will open a menu on the right to select from. Click on the one you want and it will make the location flash on your map.
Click the location on the map, and it will set a waypoint for you.

Note - you may need to zome the map out if your destination is far away.