Thanks Lax that helped. I am now able to back off the main just putting it out of AoE range. However, when I do so mouse repeating is becoming enabled and the first time I right click rolls the other IS window. I have tried to map keys for enabling and disabling mouse repeating but everytime I hit that key the mouse enables. The key I am using is "Num /". Reason I am using that set of keys is that my minstrel's abilities heal abilities are ran from that keypad.

For follow it looks like I will have to do that by mouse right click, Lotro doesn't have a mappable follow that I saw in game. If I am incorrect could someone enlighten me?