Yeah I think I've got it now, it's amazing how much you progress if you take the time too study WHY it's going wrong and you start too explore the possibilities ;p
I'm all for leveling 2 characters but my only concern's
1. Quests in general, handing them in must be a nightmare
2. Gathering quests in particular pose a massive problem
3. Getting on/off things such as lifts/boats/gryphons etc.

Any advice/tips?