Oops, forgot to include spec for the guys. I am sort of a mix right now to get the full time ghoul pet and 2/2 Blood Aura. Once I hit 80 though, this is the spec I will be running:

http://www.wowhead.com/?talent=j0EMq...hxoZbg0I0foL0o

I think this will give me the most all-around (PVE and PVP) survivability. Keep in mind that each DK is being specced with a "tanking" role in mind. Taking the least amount of damage, the most healing is the way to go based on my experience thus far. Having full time pets out is also very helpful as well. Every item you get should be focused towards defense, dodge and parry. Once you get your defense as high as 540 (for raiding bosses) or 538 for normal bosses, then focus on dodge and parry. Hope this helps :thumbup: