You will get alot of grief from players who can't help themselves.
Once you get good gear and start doing respectable damage the amount of /w and grief you get will lessen.
Some players just can't keep their traps shut about anything,and you are just an easy target.
Don't take it personally just keep grinding out you gear and ignore it.
You can also search for Automatic Goblin Therapist in dealing with whispers you dont want,its hilarious