AWESOME! It WAS right under my nose, and now I understand the distinction between focus and target a bit more.
I read about the differences but hard to wrap the head around it till you try to do it, information and then application of information gets... varying results the first time around XD.

This will def fix the issue, esp since my CC are not mob selective from the initial cast (I don't have those spells yet but must be thinking ahead)
My only worry is that someday I will play a mage duo, and then I will need to make my focus a a mob for the CC (sheep), but then again there is no auyto attack, just key mashing I suppose.

Nope nope nope, the mages will work then I see, have to think about it more.
won't get to make changes for about 6 hours, have to work my 4 hour shift XD.
I'll be back again most likely but thank you both HUGELY! I am using the RaF and time is more than money right now, I will be running 2 teams of 2NE Hunters on 2 differnt servers ( i hate friends being on different servers, what ya gunna do) and at least a hunter set and a mage set on onther relm or 2 in the 90 days of 3x bonus xp so thanks in advance for future help and the insite now! Hope it works, something about it working after 2 keypresses.... 6 hours to find out lol