Ok so i got it set up like you said.

Code:
<Label w1 Local SendWin "World of Warcraft">
<Label w2 192.168.1.112 SendWin "World of Warcraft">

<HotKey Oem6>
   <Toggle>
    	<SendLabel w1,w2>
    	<Key shift oem6>
   <Toggle>
     	<SendLabel w1,w2>
     	<Key alt oem6>
With those 2 macros on my toons. But what happens when i press the button is it sets the Focus on toon A to toon B, and the focus on toon B to toon A... and then when i press it again it removes both focus

I feel like i'm getting close but i don't know