What battlegroup you on? Ruin is tough as hell. I just did my first 5v5 with a druid healer yesterday. We won 2 and lost 8. My guys have some decent gear however, we were fighting people in full brutal gear. I dont know what the problem is on Ruin but it seems like every match is against some AHOLES farming teams for gold. About 4 of the 10 matches were against people with similar gear. The other 6 were jokes. Also we went up against the same brutal team twice which sucked.