Hopefully you'll do exactly as you've described and partake in the things you've been neglecting over the last how-ever-long. Personally, my time hasn't been wasted simply because gaming is one of my hobbies and a source of my entertainment. I long ago came to the conclusion that I'm a gamer through and through, and I'll be playing something till either my Social Security won't allow me to or I'm physically unable.

Multiboxing allows a lot of us to game and participate in most of the things you've listed. In no way shape or form do I feel I have neglected anything. I'm truly sorry you feel you have.

Good luck and do find more stuff that'll make you feel like you're getting the most out of life!