Thank you very much for your replies and ideas,
besides of the /follow problem which is really bad for a melee group i think i will try to get the following group working:

- DefWar
- Healadin
- Druid (mainly dps but tank/heal when needed, also quick change of my maintank if the war dies)
- Shaman (for totems, dps and wipe protection - healing in really desperate situations)
- Rogue (aren't gnomes cute)

I will just gonna give it another shot and see if I can get that to work.
Keep your ideas coming,
Bunny