im looking for more of a step by step guid in one place...if you know what i mean
No. I don't know what you mean.

What's missing from the myriad of information on these forums, in the Wiki, and in the video section?

If you want somebody to hold your hand through the setup process, the only person I know who's willing to do that is Rob, the author of Keyclone. Go and buy Keyclone, then see if you can persuade Rob to talk you through the setup.