have you checked out the Multiboxer V2 addon which was created by one of our own and posted on this forum ???

besides handy tricks like autoaccepting trades and quests it also shows a window
showing the party members name in green when they are in /follow followed by the name they are following
and the name in red when they are not in /follow

let me grab you a link

edit: [Addon] Multiboxer V2
edit2: http://www.dual-boxing.com/wiki/inde...n:MultiboxerV2