My wife and I each played 2 chars in EQ, but ever since WoW I've been unable to play happily without having a full group. Grinding in EQ was inexplicably fun when you had a killer group (DAoC was sorta fun grinding too) but in WoW due to the fact that killing anything more than a few above your level was a total waste of time it was boring as shit. I'm really looking forward to playing a modern EQ as you call it.
I'll be starting up in about a week... ping will dictate the server choice but for all I know all the US servers are in the same location. I generally like to play on PvP servers after reading this I'm not so sure:
"Vanguard classes are not balanced with PvP in mind, and some classes are more capable in this regard than others. For example, the maximum damage of a single attack is restricted to 40% of maximum hitpoints of the victim, but certain classes can combine multiple instant attacks, resulting in the possibility to one-shot kill other classes with no chance for the victim to fight back."
If there's one thing I hate its getting 1 shotted but I guess in a group with res's I could live with it. Xeth isn't PvP, what made you choose the carebear route? (I did the same in EQ when playing multiples I must confess)