What to do with your time?

I have run into a problem which i am guessing all or many three boxers have run into finding a good group. I would like to know how do you get into one? I have joined guilds looked in lfm tab. Is it just because I need a healer and tank that I am having so much trouble?

Question: could I make my maine resto and heal using an add on Example"healbot" and just fire off my back two guys for dps. Or would that lower my dps by to much, cause loss of awareness to the instance , and or Cause more wipes then its worth. In other words would this work.

Thanks


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